Hollywood legend Sophia Loren has a message for women everywhere: take time for yourself, guilt-free. This timeless beauty from Italy swears by a weekly at-home spa night as her go-to self-care ritual. It's a non-negotiable practice she champions without a hint of apology.
In her 1984 book, "Women & Beauty," Loren shares her secrets for making this rejuvenating experience happen. She advises women to claim a relaxing night alone at least once a week. Her tip? "If you have a family, a good way to schedule your spa is to pick a night that features their favorite television show," she suggests. "Make it clear to everyone that on that evening, during that show, you are not to be disturbed. Do not feel guilty about doing this."
“Do not feel guilty about doing this.”
Loren's emphasis on shedding guilt is more relevant than ever. A 2019 study by Kelton Global, backed by Birchbox, revealed that many women, especially mothers, often feel exhausted and find it hard to prioritize personal time (via Campaign Live). The study highlighted that women frequently skip grooming routines, lose sleep, and sacrifice naps to care for others or manage household duties. This neglect of personal needs can lead to burnout, mental health struggles, and heightened stress levels. With these findings, Loren's advice to establish a firm boundary for at least one night a week seems like a sensible and much-needed strategy.