
Once a heartthrob on The Vampire Diaries, Paul Wesley is no stranger to the spotlight. His romantic escapades have been a hot topic, with past links to Pretty Little Liars star Torrey DeVitto and actress Phoebe Tonkin. After his split from second wife Ines de Ramon in 2022, Wesley found love anew with Natalie Kuckenburg. Fast forward to 2025, and the couple is now blissfully engaged after three years of dating. Let’s dive into the world of Wesley’s stunning fiancée.
Hailing from Hanover, Germany, and boasting a Brazilian heritage, Kuckenburg is a model signed with Iconic Management. From the runways of Balmain to the pages of Harper’s Bazaar Brasil, her modeling career took off in São Paulo at the tender age of 13. Discovered in a mall, Kuckenburg has graced countless editorials and covers, making her a familiar face in the fashion world.
Beyond the glamour, Kuckenburg is deeply committed to philanthropy. She’s passionate about climate change and founded Nareia, a brand supporting women in northern Brazil through handmade, organic crochet pieces. As she shared with Marie Claire International, "I was very shy, but [my mother] told me to overcome my shyness if I wanted to succeed and pursue what I wanted." Despite her global acclaim, Kuckenburg remains grounded, stating, "I don’t consider myself famous...I’m still who I’ve always been."
Their love story began in a New York City bar, a rare occurrence in today's digital dating age. Wesley recounted the tale on LIVE with Kelly and Mark, saying, "It was just like the classic, pretty girl at a bar. There was a little look and I was like, ‘Okay, I’m gonna go for it.’" Their connection was instant, thanks to a mutual friend easing any awkwardness.
Kuckenburg's multicultural background enriches their relationship. She grew up fluent in Portuguese and German, effortlessly translating between Wesley and her family. As she expressed to Marie Claire International, "I think it’s cool to have this connection with Brazilians, precisely to show that I haven’t changed compared to when I lived in Brazil." Her desire to share her heritage with Wesley includes plans to introduce him to lesser-known facets of Brazilian culture.
In July 2025, Wesley popped the question during a romantic Italian getaway. Kuckenburg shared the joyous news on Instagram, flaunting her sparkling diamond ring with the caption, "Always and forever." The proposal took place at Caruso, a Belmond Hotel on the Amalfi Coast, a location dear to the couple since their first trip together. As Wesley revealed, "It was fantastic," with Kuckenburg admitting she had "a feeling" about the surprise.
Wesley often speaks of Kuckenburg's infectious humor, ranking her among the funniest people in his life. In a 2024 interview with People, he shared, "There’s two people that are the funniest people in my life...my dog, and frankly, my girlfriend." Their relationship thrives on laughter, a cornerstone of their enduring bond.